How can we improve this relationship?? i really dont want to lose him!!?

You need to lose him. As hard as it may be you dont need a relationship right now. I am 19 and a senior in high school. I too, have been in and out of relationships and pretty much went through one recently that you are experiencing. I left the guy, even though I still love him...to an extent. I am gay, but guys are guys. They act the same way whether it be towards a girl or a boy. There is not one benefit in being in a relationship in high school, trust me I have been there and done that. You do not need the drama. You need to focus on high school and living you life to the fullest. You do not need that extra baggage, or to be tied down right now. I dont know how old you are, but since you in high school I have a good estimate. He is not worth the trouble and time, if he is acting that way. You NEED (should you want to be in a relationship) to find someone who treats you well, and listens to you. There are other guys out there. He is not the only one you will ever like/love or whatever you may feel towards him. I know, believe me, how hard it is to break up with you first love. Watch the video clip below. It is Madea giving relationship advise. What she says is really true and I watched this video over and over again after I broke up with my first love. Again, it will be hard. But if you limit yourself with him, you may miss the one you really are looking for. You never know. PS: I ume you are in High School anyways